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I am beyond excited to bring this one-of-a-kind event to Fayetteville, NC! Attention to detail and passion for history and fashion show in every aspect of this experience as I transport you to another era - full of lavish gowns, lively entertainment and spirited dancing.
Come celebrate the Marquis de Lafayette's Birthday in style!
Enjoy regency style sweets, an exquisite birthday cake and specialty cocktails. Please Note: A meal will NOT be served at this event.
Dance the night away with waltzes and reels called by a Regency dance master, try your hand at the card tables, participate in some Regency ga
Come celebrate the Marquis de Lafayette's Birthday in style!
Enjoy regency style sweets, an exquisite birthday cake and specialty cocktails. Please Note: A meal will NOT be served at this event.
Dance the night away with waltzes and reels called by a Regency dance master, try your hand at the card tables, participate in some Regency games (whist, dominoes, skittles, puzzles), get your portrait taken, your silhouette cut, your fortune read, and test your ballroom etiquette.
Take a trip through history by viewing our exhibit of military uniforms and civilian clothing.
Meet the General, himself, as he makes his way through the crowd, recounts his Revolutionary adventures with General Washington and Napoleon, and shares his exquisite Birthday Cake with guests!
This truly is the Event of the Season!
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Extras for purchase before the event:
Regency Hair styling with hairstylists reserved especially for this event.
Don't have historically appropriate clothing?No worries! We still want you to come out and enjoy yourself. Modern formal wear with a Regency feel is also welcome (Women - think high waisted, floor-length gowns. Men - at a minimum dark suit and tie.)
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While the Classic Regency Period (think Jane Austen) is approximately 10 years before the time frame for this event, you can certainly get away with wearing Early Regency! Here's a great article by BBC that explains Regency wear and provides some inspiration. And Fashion History Timeline does a great explanation of the 1820s as a whole.
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Considering 18th Century or Colonial Attire? For perspective, this event is set approximately 50 years after the American Revolutionary War. So, if you don your Colonial Attire consider having the following excuse on the ready should someone ask you why, "Why I am wearing my fancy dress costume from the 1770s when Lafayette first graced us with his presence!"
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Note to the Ladies:
I do not recommend court dress or long trains as they become quite cumbersome walking among crowds or dancing, and can easily be stepped on or torn.
Should you choose to wear such a garment, please ensure you have a train wrist band to help keep your train up and about you as you move through the venue and dancing.
Dancing throughout the 18th & 19th Centuries was fundamentally a social activity. Most of the dances will be done in groups! You are welcome to bring a partner or a group of friends, but there is no problem with attending solo and meeting new people.
We will have a dance master announcing and calling out
WHAT IF I DON'T KNOW HOW TO DANCE?
Dancing throughout the 18th & 19th Centuries was fundamentally a social activity. Most of the dances will be done in groups! You are welcome to bring a partner or a group of friends, but there is no problem with attending solo and meeting new people.
We will have a dance master announcing and calling out some of the dances. If you've never danced at a regency ball before DON'T WORRY! Just get out there on the dance floor.
We will use the terms “lady” and “gentleman,” as used in 19th C. dance manuals, for the dance roles not the person in the role.
A person in the lady’s role begins on the right side of a couple and generally steps off with the right foot. A person dancing the gentleman’s role begins on the left side of the couple and generally steps off with the left.
Pick a role and stick with it for the length of the dance you started. You can dance a different role (if you wish) for other dances in the evening.
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You can wear clothing of whatever gender makes you feel comfortable and confident, but this doesn’t force you into one dance role or the other.
While tickets are open to all, I would adviseAGAINST guests under 12.
Take the following into consideration:
1. Tickets are required for ALL participants.
We do offer "student discounts" for High School and College-Aged participants. ALL participants will require a ticket to enter the venue - including children.
2. This is a Formal Event
While tickets are open to all, I would adviseAGAINST guests under 12.
Take the following into consideration:
1. Tickets are required for ALL participants.
We do offer "student discounts" for High School and College-Aged participants. ALL participants will require a ticket to enter the venue - including children.
2. This is a Formal Event.
With an expectation of formal dress, manners and behavior. For most children this would be extremely challenging. We would not want your child's frustration to conflict with other participants' expectations.
3. This event is being held late into the night.
We would hate for your child to become overly tired and stressed, or stress other guests.
4. There will be Lights/Sounds/Crowds.
The space will likely be crowded and loud. Most young children find situations like that overstimulating and overwhelming.
Anyone behaving in a disruptive manner (from 2 weeks old to 102) will be asked to leave the event.
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We are right off I95, an hour and half south of Raleigh/Durham, 2 hours 45 minutes east of Charlotte, and 3 hours north of Charleston, SC.
Flying In?
FAY(Fayetteville Airport is minutes from the venue)
RDU(Raleigh/Durham Airport is approximately 1-1/2 hours from Fayetteville
Taking the Train?
AMTRAKhas a station right in the heart of downtown Fayetteville and just minutes walk from the venue!
PLEASE DON'T DRINK AND DRIVE!
While here, feel free to use Uberand Lyftto get around - we have great access to these affordable and convenient rideshare options. Please follow all the safety recommendations and do NOT take rides from unsolicited strangers.
EAT, DRINK AND BE MERRY! (WHERE TO STAY, EAT & WHAT TO DO)
EAT, DRINK AND BE MERRY! (WHERE TO STAY, EAT & WHAT TO DO)
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Gillis Hill Farm (A NINTH-generation farm with amazing homemade ice-cream and animals and nature walks - there is a fee to enter.)
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EAT, DRINK AND BE MERRY! (WHERE TO STAY, EAT & WHAT TO DO)
VINTAGE STYLE NOT VINTAGE VALUES (HOW TO BEHAVE)
Let it be known that while this event celebrates the clothing styles, entertainment, manners and spirit of the late Regency period, prejudice, bigotry, lewdness, sexism, or generally rude or obnoxious behavior WILL NOT BE TOLERATED at any time (even if such behavior would have been tolerated in 1825.)
Any person demonstrating the above beh
Let it be known that while this event celebrates the clothing styles, entertainment, manners and spirit of the late Regency period, prejudice, bigotry, lewdness, sexism, or generally rude or obnoxious behavior WILL NOT BE TOLERATED at any time (even if such behavior would have been tolerated in 1825.)
Any person demonstrating the above behavior, or behaving in a manner deemed to be disruptive or distasteful (even in jest), will be asked to leave.
If this policy is disagreeable to you, please choose not to attend.
BeespokeVintage Events does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, religion (creed), gender, gender expression, age, national origin (ancestry), disability, marital status, sexual orientation, or military status, in any of its activities or operations.
Note: The portrait above depicts Dido Elizabeth Bellea British heiress born into slavery and illegitimate. While the portrait is few decades prior to my event, its story provides some context to the era prior to Lafayette's return to the US.
I want to make your experience as excellent as possible!
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Because of the nature of the event, there may be sensory issues for some participants. There will be music (though classical, possibly loud), electrical lighting, and lots of moving people (dancing). Please consider this before booking your ticket, if you have extra sensory issu
I want to make your experience as excellent as possible!
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Because of the nature of the event, there may be sensory issues for some participants. There will be music (though classical, possibly loud), electrical lighting, and lots of moving people (dancing). Please consider this before booking your ticket, if you have extra sensory issues. And feel free to ask questions.
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Please do let me know if you need other special accommodations. While I cannot guarantee that I can accommodate all needs, I will do my best to ensure your needs are met within the constraints of the venue.
I understand things come up and you may need to cancel your registration.
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Tickets are non-refundable but they are transferable. If the ball is sold out, people who missed getting tickets may post on the Facebook event page to say they are willing to buy tickets from someone whose plans have changed.
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When you are buying tickets from
I understand things come up and you may need to cancel your registration.
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Tickets are non-refundable but they are transferable. If the ball is sold out, people who missed getting tickets may post on the Facebook event page to say they are willing to buy tickets from someone whose plans have changed.
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When you are buying tickets from a stranger, please be careful. Most people are trustworthy but if you feel like something is amiss, don’t go through with the transaction.
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